"Shadi kab hogi?" — Jyotish mein yeh sabse zyada pucha jaane wala sawaal hai. Aur iska sahi jawab koi guess nahi hota, ek calculation hota hai. Jo bhi aapko sirf sun sign dekh kar ya "25 ke baad" bol kar tal de, woh astrology nahi kar raha. Sahi jawab aapki kundli ki chaar layers se aata hai, ek ke baad ek.
Layer 1 — Promise: aapka 7th house
Lagna se 7th house shadi ka ghar hai. Pehla check qualitative hai: wahan kaunsi rashi hai, kaunse graha baithe hain, aur uska swami (lord) kahan gaya hai. Strong aur achhi jagah baitha 7th lord partnership ka vaada karta hai; kamzor ya peedit 7th lord shadi ko mana nahi karta — woh delay, friction, ya alag raaste ki baat karta hai.
7th house ke saath Venus (Shukra) dekha jaata hai — sabke liye shadi ka karaka — aur Jaimini padhati mein Darakaraka: aapki kundli mein sabse kam degree wala graha, jo life partner ko describe karta hai.
Layer 2 — Timing: Vimshottari dasha
Promise batata hai ki shadi hogi ya nahi aur kaisi hogi; dasha batata hai KAB. Aapki zindagi grah-dashaon (mahadasha) aur unke antar (antardasha) se chalti hai, jo janm ke samay Chandrama ki exact position se calculate hoti hain. Shadi tab live hoti hai jab dasha ke swami 7th house, uske lord, Venus, ya 2nd house (parivaar) se connected hon. Friendly mahadasha ke andar 7th lord ki antardasha — yahi classic shadi ki window hai.
Layer 3 — Confirmation: Guru aur Shani ka gochar
Dasha ki window tab pakti hai jab slow transits bhi haan bolein. Guru (Jupiter) ka gochar aapke 7th house, uske lord, ya Chandrama par — yeh traditional green signal hai. Shani ki drishti commitment ki seriousness laati hai. Jab live dasha window mein Guru aur Shani dono shadi ke points ko chhuein — yeh double transit hai, aur asli sagai yahin hoti hai.
Layer 4 — Navamsha (D9) chart
Navamsha shadi ka apna divisional chart hai. Janm kundli mein kamzor graha agar D9 mein strong ho, toh uska vaada wapas aa jaata hai. D9 ka lagna aur uska lord shadi ke BAAD ki zindagi batate hain, sirf event nahi. D9 skip karna sasti predictions ke galat hone ki sabse badi wajah hai.
Kundli mein delay kyun dikhta hai
Shani ka 7th house ya uske lord par asar classically shadi ko late karta hai, mana nahi karta — kundli ka yeh kehne ka tareeka hai ki partnership der se pakti hai aur lambi chalti hai. Mangal dosh sabse zyada galat samjha jaane wala factor hai: zyadatar cases jaanch par cancel ho jaate hain. Darne se pehle woh guide padhiye.